There is a twin flame soul mate blog that I occasionally follow called "Relationship Reinvented". The author is with his twin flame soul mate and writes many entries on the twin flame relationship. Yesterday's blog entry really spoke truth to me and I felt it was very important to share. This was one of the most difficult parts of my path and from what I've heard the hardest part for many others as well.
It all goes back to what we are "taught" about relationships and what we are led to believe about them. Yet if we put our whole existence into perspective and if we dare to believe that we have had past lives, we'll discover a whole series of relationships, people and love affairs across the board. Each one comes into our lives to help us learn something about ourselves. There will be times when you are in denial and refuse to accept the truth about yourself, but those are the exact things that will keep you from inner contact with your twin flame.
Twin flames are more common now as we are progressing as a species. You may get glimpses in dreams, during the day or occasional telepathic conversations going on in your head. I've been asked before why it might be so strong sometimes and not as strong other times. Sometimes the connection you feel is all based on our patterns. If we are engaged in what we "think" the relationship should be, or refuse to accept parts of ourselves, including the existence of our twin, the connection is dimmed. You or the other twin is refusing to accept a part of yourself and most often is in some sort of denial. This can be frustrating, but you have to have the wisdom to just inquire and not force; to allow the issue to surface on it's own like the budding of a flower. I made specific steps on my path to do this. I asked for a spiritual teacher and began taking yoga classes. Most people think yoga is just for relaxation, but it serves many purposes, especially when a twin flame discovery is involved.
The key to discovering the twin is actually to discover the self first. Your alignment with your twin will be in the I AM presence of your soul. To get to that place you yourself must be in alignment. Yoga serves to that on many levels. The physical body is the obvious one, then mentally it helps you focus. Spiritually it helps to clear your head and ultimately helps you connect all three, body, mind and spirit into unison. But there is another part of yoga that I discovered. I used to like to tell my students this analogy: When you stretch in yoga, when you reach for the sky, your body is like a rubber band. If you picture a rubber band stretching, the molecules of the rubber band begin to get further apart. When they do whatever is stuck in those molecules or between them can get released. Of course it could be stress, but on another level, and in the energy bodies, since they are all connected, we are releasing our "stuff" from them as well. Patterns played out through lifetimes, things we do unconsciously this lifetime we suddenly become conscious of. This all happens just by "being" in the moment, focusing our attention, and being taught the ability to "let go." Now we allow our stuff to rise to the surface all on its own. It is never an act of the ego or will to force growth, it must always be allowed.
Which brings me to this very favorite paragraph of this special blog. Many times you will feel like you want to "fix" things with your flame. You will want to force finding them, you may want to force a meeting or make it happen sooner than it should. All of these things are thoughts based on the ego and thoughts based on thinking you can "make" something happen like we do in ever day relationships. This is not the case with flames. These are relationships of the soul. The true journey is internal and the way this blog writer wrote the following paragraph explains our attempts to control it perfectly:
"You will be fearful to let go of any and all pain, for the pain to let go will give the pain a sense of survival mode as it were as food for the ego or mind to keep this as a state of thinking that it is outside that the problem exist. This is the greatest magic trick for it takes you far away from what the connection was in bliss.. You thinking and how you interact in the world is the illusion of why you are or aren’t together. A great void this leaves for it is an empty pain with no real truth. It tries to give you the pain to rebirth you and you elect to suffer through this as a need or a want.. and as you seek outside to find resolution or seek outside making this about the twin you will suffer greatly. Yet the greater the suffering or pain the greater the connection has something more miraculous to birth within you."
For the full blog post referred to please visit Relationships Reinvented, Madness of Twin Flames post here. In summary we must always remember, the flame is with us always. We only need to discover them.
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