2/14/13

Happy Valentines Day - Ego Based Love vs Twin Flame Love

Valentines Day in the US is associated with romance, flowers and candy.  Lovers exchange small tokens of affection in recognition of their admiration with one another.

Floral shops increase their prices, candy shops prepare heart shaped boxes and the industry booms with symbols of affection.  Those that receive these goodies feel special and those that don't sometimes feel badly.

When it comes to twin flames Valentines Day is a mute subject.  A day that was created by man is hardly a symbol of what a higher love brings.  Ego based love will demand attention, demand to be recognized, when soul love simply just is.  Sometimes we get confused as to what love is so I thought I might put down some concepts about ego based love and  twin soul love.

1.  Ego based love says that if you do this for me I will love you.
     Twin Flame love says I love you

2.  Ego based love says I could love this person if he or she would only . . . .
     Twin Flame love says I love you

3.  Ego based love says if you loved me you would . . .
     Twin Flame love says I love you

4.  Ego based love thinks its ok to hide who I am so someone will love me
     Twin flame love says I love you

5.  Ego based love says I will do this for you if you love me
    Twin flame love says I love you

You might see that twin flame love will always be constant.  For the very foundation of this soul level love is the love that you were created from in the very beginning.  It is constant, all encompassing and expansive.
This does not mean that your twin flame might not have an ego.  Only that the bond that is shared will always be there through soul level love.  This is why trying to put a twin flame relationship into the structure of what our current definitions are of love (ego based love) twin flames could never get to the next level of love.  In an ego based love we tend to look to the wrong rules - the man made ones instead of the all encompassing God ones.

Reaching the point of the twin flame love you will no longer seek flowers and candy.  You will be thankful for the gift of light and pure bliss that no other relationship could ever bring.

This Valentines day may you enjoy your special day whether you are attached or not, knowing that somewhere someone loves you unconditionally and forever - your twin flame.

1 comment:

Reni Sentana-Ries said...

Off topic, Debbie, Seila and I just had a small discussion on power and the abuse of it. At the end we agreed that IT TAKES SOUL EVOLUTION TO HAVE POWER AND NOT ABUSE IT!

Okay, back to the topic of unconditional twin soul love. I agree with you that regardless to what extent a loving twin flame meets with ego-centered discourtesies from the "other," - love remains constant. We may feel hurt, but love remains and the joy of it will become multiplied when "the other" catches up in conduct and mannerisms to no longer be egocentric but polite.

Regards, -Reni