Twin Flames - Your Choice, Your Mission, and Dysfunction

Many twin flames that are incarnate have chosen to do so.  Choosing to provide a service to humanity in some way, they have chosen to voluntarily incarnate in hopes of helping their fellow man.  This is not to say that some of us didn't need to be talked into it.  The earth school isn't easy, and for many flames you will bear the weight and burden of not only yourself, but your soul group.

Twin flames will have an innate desire to fulfill some kind of mission.  The desire to make a difference in the world will be strong, and so in many ways so will be your exploration of the self.  You instinctively know that in order to help change the world around you, you must also find how to change things about yourself.  Enter: dysfunctional families and relationships.

We have talked about the bodies we need to purify, the reaching, the mission, and have also touched some on dysfunction.  When I say on the right side bar I have been an advocate of self help, this is why.  Some of us will be born into families that we just don't think we fit into.  I once actually thought I was adopted.  On another occasion, thought I was Michael Jackson's twin from the womb.  That was shattered because we weren't the same skin color, didn't have the same color hair, but you know, the communication was there.  I don't know . . just how my mind worked back then. lol So I often wondered, what was it about us, about me, that made me feel so different?

Many twins will seek out the patterns of our past and incarnate into those groups purposely.  We have the ability to overcome the karma and end the cycle of dysfunction, for not only ourselves, but for our soul group.  This isn't an easy process, and you will most likely feel like the odd ball out, or the black sheep of the family for no good reason.  But mark my words, the progress you make for yourself, even though on the outside it may separate you from the others in your biological family, will make a world of difference for you and your soul family.  

So what exactly is dysfunction?  Dysfunction in families and relationships is an impairment of some sort.  It could be addiction, alcoholism, anger issues, abandonment, the list goes on and on.  For me it was not easy to over come the dysfunctions in my family.  Often we are conditioned to respect the opinions and authority of others, something both Michael and I had to overcome.  Yet this was a critical step for both of us.  We both had to overcome the dysfunctions in our families to a certain degree before we could even think about a life together.  Still to this day, we speak about our family situations, what we have learned, and what we are still learning.  At times I feel like a perpetual student of the light, still discovering what it is that makes us tick. Yet the more I find, the more I find how fascinating we truly are as humans.

So if you feel alone, feel like you're different.  If you know that sometimes you know the right thing to do when the rest of your family clearly seems to be on the wrong path, it could be because you have chosen this very same course.  The road isn't easy, but I can assure you of one thing: Heaven is glad you came.  For with you, someone else has also chosen to accompany you on this journey and together you will make great strides for humanity.

So from one twin to another, thank you for making that choice and going through the hard times.  In the end, it will be worth it for us all.  I lovingly dedicate the song below to you and your twin.  When you listen to the words you'll realize the dawning of hearing your beloveds voice, your plans for changing the world and the forever love that you will not only share with your twin but the world around you both.

Blessings on your path.