More from Finland on Twin Flame Soul Mates

The following are excerpts from one of our readers from Finland who was so very kind in helping us bring this to you by translating what she has learned about twin flames in Finland:

Thank you Riikka!!

"Before we can connect to our divine counterpart, we must first realize that we ourselves are whole and we do not need anything from the outside, because many times we tend to be in relationships where we are looking for light outside of us and we become dependent on the other person."

This is why we look for relationships most often to begin with - someone to make us happy.  Instead of looking for happiness in ourselves we look for someone else to make us happy.  Most often we are disappointed.  How can someone else make us happy if we don't know how to make ourselves happy to begin with?

"Most of our relationships are about addiction or karma. When we don’t know what a relationship truly is about and what it really means we only attract relationships of addiction which are about fear of losing the other. We must recognize these relationships that do not support the path of light and release them. One cannot earn love, one must surrender to love. True love is not about chains. In true love you can be apart from the other and let the other be free without the feelings of jealousy. But on the other hand, divine love calms you down and you no longer have the need to rush anywhere. When you are with your other half, you are home. When we meet our divine relationship we still try to change it into a relationship of addiction because that is the only familiar form of a relationship that we know of. The true divine relationship is not about addiction and that is why you can feel totally happy even when the other is far away and you don't  feel a need for the other person, just longing in its purest form because you remember all the good times you have shared together."

The Man in the Mirror Project begins to break these patterns in relationships down.  What is inside ourselves that draw us to certain people?  Becoming conscious of patterns like this allows us to peel away the layers of karma and open up to true divine love.

"Karma can prevent the two flames coming together and that is why one needs to send love and light to purify that karma. When you have a divine relationship in balance and harmony within yourself first, you can start manifesting that relationship to the outer world. Being in a twin flame relationship brings you so many blessings because you also start attracting abundance into other areas of your life if you only let it happen. A twin flame relationship holds a key for abundance in life in general."

Has anyone seen the movie or read the book "The Secret"?  This is our divine right.  To put into motion the right to create ourselves.  What a better way to create abundance than to access the source itself.  This is about reclaiming the right of who we truly are - divine beings, not the thoughts in our heads and who we believe we are.

"It has been said that even the ascended masters are still waiting for the manifestation of this divine relationship. This kind of a relationship is about meeting a person who is like a mirror or a counterpart to you and that is why your interaction brings constant healing energy to both of you. When you see yourself in the other person you become healed from that same place and you are also healing the other from that place as well. This kind of a relationship is always about serving and you have a common mission of the soul. There is also telepathy and a connection of the heart. We are all practicing this divine relationship in our other relationships and so we are walking towards this last divine relationship which at the same time is our path to ascension." 

Each relationship we enter into will bring us lessons to learn about ourselves.  Use them as opportunities to do what Jesus himself has said to do "Know Yourself".  It is then that you can begin to get closer to the true light within you and connect with your flame - whether they are on this side of the veil or the other.