Discernment

During your road to your twin flame soul mate you will have many what most people view as "unusual" experiences.  Twin Flames are relationships of the soul after all, and as such have everything to do with spiritual connections and energies.  These are some of the things that our mainstream society has not put an emphasis on.  Only currently are we seeing more mediums, psychics and ghost phenomenon coming to us via television and media outlets, yet most occurrances are still not viewed as the "norm".

A twin flame, however, should you be incarnated with one, will always have unusual experiences.  You may have visions of your flame, knowings, dreams, out of body experiences and see things in your meditation that may make you question a connection to another person.  These are all things that should be evidence to you that we have another part of ourselves that is real and connected to all things.

Yet when we begin to traverse this path there is really very little to help us with our navigation.  Society may show ghosts on the television, but does it say what to do if you have one or what it might be like to have one talk to you?  Some shows do, yet they leave out some very important details.  For when you open yourself up to the other side, even a flame must institute and begin a process of discernment or you just may be opening yourself up for possession, with a lack of a better word.

Very few of us can see straight into the astral plane.  The astral plane is the plane of existence that resides closest to us and as such carries the densest vibration of energy to also interact with humans.  Astral energies often can take shape or form of whatever or whoever they choose.  These energies may be people who have died and refused to go on to the light or other life forms, including elementals which delight in human contact and will be and do what ever a human mind can think of to entertain them.

So what happens when we get in contact with someone or something telepathically?  Most often you don't necessarily "see" that person, you "hear" them.  When you speak with a spirit you normally institute your hearing abilities, not sight, with your extra sensory organs.  So it's almost like talking to a stranger.  The stranger can say anything.  The stranger can most often probably even manipulate energy if it is an astral being or "ghost".  You may feel a sudden chill, a breeze, or even an actual hand or fingers grabbing you.

If they sound friendly, they may be, but not always.  The bible talks about spiritual gifts.  One of those is discernment of spirits.  If you dare to tread in spiritual waters you would be a fool not to educate yourself first.  There is a song I have on a presentation I'll be posting from Savage Garden that relates to twin souls called "I Want You" and some of the lyrics are :

"But the time of talking, using symbols, using words 

Can be likened to a deep sea diver 

who is swimming with a raincoat"

In the realm of spirit a raincoat is never going to keep you from getting wet.  You have to be diligent with what you are thinking yourself.  What you are projecting to the universe and how you are feeling about the experiences you are having.  If they leave you alone, sad, depressed, angry or simply depleted in energy, chances are you are not dealing with something positive.  It is then that your discernment must be imposed and your best bet is to break off contact all together.  Even in the physical realm we could encounter the same.  An individual that lies repeatedly, while masking their true intention.  

The bottom line is to listen to your intuition and trust your feelings.  They will never lie to you - but a spirit or even a human might.